Girl Talk: Your vulnerability is so very SEXY!!!!!!!!

Girl Talk: Your vulnerability is so very SEXY!!!!!!!!: Tweet Okay so today Buddy is struggling with several issues that are very complicated. I was on the other end of the frustrations and pain...

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Girl Talk: Your vulnerability is so very SEXY!!!!!!!!

Girl Talk: Your vulnerability is so very SEXY!!!!!!!!: Tweet Okay so today Buddy is struggling with several issues that are very complicated. I was on the other end of the frustrations and pain...

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Your vulnerability is so very SEXY!!!!!!!!

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Okay so today Buddy is struggling with several issues that are very complicated.  I was on the other end of the frustrations and pain he was feeling.  I never mind listening nor offering my advice, even though it wasn't asked for and I was very forthcoming.  However, into our fifth conversation of the morning, I wasn't such a great listener as I think I am, I failed Buddy.  I failed to really listening to what he was saying and understanding his pain.  I failed to just let him vent without interruption.  I failed to give him my shoulder to lean upon without judgement.  So Buddy to you I say, your a fabulous person, you give all the emotional support to your children without wavering and your an all around great person.  I should have listened and offered no advice as you were just needing someone. I promise to be a better friend to you in the present and future.  I am honored that you call me your friend.  When you cry tears, I cry with you, when you feel pain, I feel pain with you, when you struggle, I struggle with you.  Women often hide our emotions so we don't look like a wreck.  I love that you can share the good and the bad.  I love that your not afraid to cry and fall apart in front of me.  I would not change a thing about you including your being so opinionated.  I want you to know, your one of the most special people I have ever encountered.   I look forward to seeing what the future holds for you.  With all my heart!!!!

P.S.  Your vulnerability is so SEXY!!!!!!!!!

Ker

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Girl Talk: If your the light of my life, why does our future ...: I had a guy tell me today that he was the light of my life. Well Bucko, here is a question to you. IF YOU ARE THE LIGHT OF MY LIFE, WHY...

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If your the light of my life, why does our future look so dim

I had a guy tell me today that he  was the light of my  life.  Well Bucko,  here is a question to you.  IF YOU ARE THE LIGHT OF MY LIFE, WHY DOES OUR FUTURE LOOK SO DIM??????/

You don't excite me at all

You are not even remotely attractive to me

You and I have no common interest

You and I do not see eye to eye if you know what I mean

You don't even know me and you think you are the light of my life

You don't even know me and you think we are permanent partners

You haven't spent 10 minutes with me, how could you think we belong together

You don't know me,  what if I don't know how to cook

You don't know me, what if I am a a-sexual

You don't know me, what if I am married

You don't know me, what if I'm a terrible kisser

You say this to me after meeting me for ten minutes mostly because I have big boobs,  I think you probably say this to most women you meet. 

So Mr. you are not the light of my life,  you are a lightening bug, fluttering away as I watch your light get dimmer and dimmer.

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Girl Talk: Big boobs, great skin, and damn good looking.........: Tweet Okay so a very confusing conversation between me and my buddy. I'm gonna start calling him buddy in my post as you all will know wh...

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Big boobs, great skin, and damn good looking.......Then why aren't you asking me out?

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Okay so a very confusing conversation between me and my buddy.   I'm gonna start calling him buddy in my post as you all will know who I am talking about. Buddy says to me a while back, "you've got big boobs, great skin, and your damn good looking.  I bet you get asked out a lot."  My reply was  "sometimes". What I should have said was,  if I am so great, why aren't you asking me out?  Or I could have said yes I am pretty fabulous, what's your problem in not recognizing that I'm a catch?  Instead I get quite waiting on his follow up to my "sometimes".  Of course the conversation ends with that topic and moves on to another one of our many daily discussions.  This conversation happened a couple of months ago, after we had gone out to a very fun night.   I think about this conversation and wonder why he doesn't ask me out, why he said what he did, and is he the problem here or is it something I did to steer him in a friendship instead of a relationship?  I don't think I will ever know the answer to this question and I have given up any hope of trying to read Buddy's mind.   I would love to enter his mind for a couple of hours just to see what he is thinking.  We have so much fun together and of course there is chemistry so why not ask me out?  To my defense, I tell myself it's because I am so strong and into my career, I'm very tall, and I am very smart,  traits that often scare men away.  Why is it men do get intimidated by us women who are bigger than life?  I look so forward to meeting someone that can take the whole package, arrogance and all, embrace it, love it and enjoy the ride that goes along with Kerrie's craziness.   I know somewhere out there a man that fits this personality does exist.  Just please hurry up and find me! 

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Girl Talk: Lets hang out and play naked twister

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Girl Talk: You know I'm faking it if....

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Girl Talk: Did you not hear me? I'm screaming I want someone...

Girl Talk: Did you not hear me? I'm screaming I want someone...: Tweet I had a great breakfast with my dear friend whom I adore and am so attracted to. I often wonder why we don't date as we have such che...

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Girl Talk: I'm a dirty martini and a cigar kind of girl

Girl Talk: I'm a dirty martini and a cigar kind of girl: A good car friend of mine said something interesting to me yesterday. He said he felt like I had testosterone in my veins because I am so g...

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Girl Talk: I'm a dirty martini and a cigar kind of girl

Girl Talk: I'm a dirty martini and a cigar kind of girl: A good car friend of mine said something interesting to me yesterday. He said he felt like I had testosterone in my veins because I am so g...

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I'm a dirty martini and a cigar kind of girl

A good car friend of mine said something interesting to me yesterday.  He said he felt like I had testosterone in my veins because I am so good at selling cars and hanging out with the guys.  Most women would have felt de-womanized, however I took it as a wonderful compliment.   I can do most things a man can do. I am strong in so many ways.  My list today are things that I love to do that are manly.  I am proud of my diversity to so many things, so today is a celebration of us girls and what we love to do.

I love Football

I love watching Sports Center

I love fast cars

I love changing my own oil when I have the chance

I love that I can change a flat time

I love that I can run out of gas and take care of myself

I love that I can jump start anything

I love that I can Bow hunt

I love that trout fishing is one of my most favorite sports to do

I love to Jet Ski really fast

I love to play Chess

I love to watch hunting shows

I love washing my own car

I love to cut grass

I love to play poker with the guys

I love to talk about torque and horsepower

I love being a girl that can love guy things

Lets enjoy what we love to do and Thank God he gave us the choices we have.  Here's to being a girl

Tell me what you girls out there love to do!  I can't wait to hear from you.

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Girl Talk: I'd rather kiss a jackass than go through a break ...

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Girl Talk: I'd rather kiss a jackass than go through a break ...

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Girl Talk: I'd rather kiss a jackass than go through a break ...

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Girl Talk: I'd rather kiss a jackass than go through a break up

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Girl Talk: I'd rather kiss a jackass than go through a break ...

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I'd rather kiss a jackass than go through a break up

It is so very hard to go through a break up of a relationship whether it be marriage or just a partner.  Why do we make things so complicated.  You just want to be free to move forward and start your new life, however egos get in the way of life's new starts.   Here's what I want to say to HIM, the ex. 

I just want to never think about you again

I just want to stop crying over the mental anguish I suffered

I just want to be through with this relationship

I just want to feel like I am worth something, as you still tell me I am not.

I just want you to know that I am not interested in your life anymore

I just want you to know the Russian girl you ordered  isn't going to be any better than I was

I just want to be able to date without playing my breakup cd before going out with someone new

I just want to be able to trust again

I just want to be able to eat without feeling guilty because so many times you took the fork out of my mouth

I just want to be able to know you never really loved me

I just want to be able to know, it wasn't my being a size 8 that was too big, it was your small brain

I just want to be able to look at myself in the mirror and see a positive instead of a negative

I just want to be able to move on

I just want to be able to be free without any restrictions from you

If I could kiss a jackass and make this relationship to have never existed than to relive the past everyday, I would do it.

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Girl Talk: I'm not that into you if part two

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Girl Talk: I'm not that into you if part two

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I'm not that into you if part two

I'm not that into you if I shrug when you touch me

I'm not that into you if I ignore your needs

I'm not that into you if I ask you to introduce me to one of your friends

I'm not that into you if I tell you I won't be available during the Holidays

I'm not that into you if I don't laugh at your jokes

I'm not that into you if I don't plan vacation with you

I'm not that into you if I tell you I'm on my menstrual cycle and can't talk during that time

I'm not that into you if I don't tell my parents about you

I'm not that into you if I say "we're just friends"

I'm not that into you if I don't invite you to Church with me

I'm not that into you if I don't make dinner for you

I'm not that into you if I don't invite you to have lunch with me during the week

I'm not that into you if I don't french kiss you

I'm not that into you if you think we are dating after a first date

I'm not that into you if you wear plaid

I'm not that into you if you don't meet my needs

I'm not that into you if your communication skills are less than great

I'm not that into you if your mom is number one on your phone

I'm not that into you if your house is a mess

I'm not that into you if you don't pay child support

I'm not that into you if your teeth are bad

I'm not that into you if your breath stinks

I'm not that into you if your always looking at other women

I'm not that into you if your socks don't match

I'm not that into you if I you wear casual to a formal dinner

I'm not that into you if you claim to me a Millionaire but your really aren't

I'm not that into you if you don't spend lots of time with your children

I'm not that into you if your hair is greasy

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Girl Talk: I'm not that into you if,: We know the book called "The Rules" and we have learned to live by them in our single world. However, guys don't seem to understand sometim...

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Girl Talk: Toad showed up, prince no where in site

Girl Talk: Toad showed up, prince no where in site: Tweet Another blind date, another Toad. As you all know, last night was a blind date for me. I went in with low expectations and that's...

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Toad showed up, prince no where in site

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Another blind date, another Toad.  As you all know,  last night was a blind date for me.  I went in with low expectations and that's exactly what I got.  Lets call him Fred as I don't feel comfortable revealing his real name.  Fred was 5'2 not 6'1 as he described, he was everything he said he was not.  I am thinking, does he look in a mirror that cast back his reflection or does he have a magical mirror.  As you know, I don't know judge a guy by his looks, I need to spend some time with his personality.  Fred didn't bring his personality to the date.  He was void of any kind of communication skills or manners.  Fred stared at me all night as if he couldn't believe I was actually out with him.  He didn't know how to order for me, he didn't know to pull my chair out, and he didn't know how to ask me about my day, life, or anything else for that matter.  We spend a whole hour and a half being stagnate.  I have never before had such a boring date.  In Fred's defense, I was very late.  Maybe that fact alone got him off track.  When spending time with Fred,  sex, dating, romance, holding hands, were thrown out the window.  I found myself figuring out how to escape the dinner before the food arrived.  Of course I suffered through and lived to tell about it.  To all the Fred's out there, just be honest with your true personality and true looks.  We we so not a match from the beginning and a waste of money on dinner.  I keep waiting for my Prince to show up, however, he hasn't so far.  Maybe he has actually, we are both just living in a world of denial.   To Fred, there is someone out there for you,  its just not me.   

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Girl Talk: Girl Talk: Do you think I'm Sexy?

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Girl Talk: I'm not that into you if

Girl Talk: I'm not that into you if: Hey guys, A reader emailed me today about some additions to my blog of "I'm not that into you if". I'm not that into you if I change...

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I'm not that into you if

Hey guys,


A reader emailed me today about some additions to my blog of   "I'm not that into you if".


I'm not that into you if I change my dinner invite to lunch or coffee.


I'm not that into you if I never invite you to my place


I'm not that into you if Your not a dog lover


Thanks so much for the new items. 

Girl Talk: Do you think I'm Sexy?

Girl Talk: Do you think I'm Sexy?: I actually had a guy ask me today if I thought he was sexy. My reply was sexy is all about personality and how you carry yourself. I belie...

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Girl Talk: Do you think I'm Sexy?

Girl Talk: Do you think I'm Sexy?: I actually had a guy ask me today if I thought he was sexy. My reply was sexy is all about personality and how you carry yourself. I belie...

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Do you think I'm Sexy?

I actually had a guy ask me today if I thought he was sexy.  My reply was sexy is all about personality and how you carry yourself.  I believe we women find men attractive when they are good providers, good fathers, good listeners, and good companions.  I have seen the most gorgeous men, but after holding a 10 minute conversation with them, the sexiness is not there at all.  I've also seen men that do not look appealing at all, however after spending time with him, you discover he is so sexy and attractive. The person I am most attractive to is not a hottie but he is so sexy to me.  He is a GREAT father, good listener, best friend and a great advice giver.  In fact he is probably my very best friend.  He is middle aged with ailing health and struggling, but to me he is the best looking man I have seen in a long time.  I adore him. So men out there, if your wanting to look sexy,  its all in the eyes of the beholder.  Make sure you come across as the man of our dreams.  Looks are only a small portion of a man's sexiness.  We want to have sex with someone we can trust, we honor, and we feel secure with.  That's what makes a man sexy.

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Girl Talk: You know I'm faking it if....

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Girl Talk: You know I'm faking it if....

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Girl Talk: I'm not faking for you, I want my O's

Girl Talk: I'm not faking for you, I want my O's: Often in a woman's world, we are left settling for what we can get instead of what we want. So when I get back into a relationship that b...

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Girl Talk: I'm not faking for you, I want my O's

Girl Talk: I'm not faking for you, I want my O's: Often in a woman's world, we are left settling for what we can get instead of what we want. So when I get back into a relationship that b...

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Girl Talk: You know I'm faking it if....

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You know I'm faking it if....

You know I'm faking it if I say your too heavy, get off


You know I'm faking it if I say "I've gotta go,  I have a busy day tomorrow"


You know I'm faking it if I say "your finished already?"


You know I'm faking it if I say "I imagined this to be so different"



You know I'm faking it if I say "its been a while for you right?"


You know I'm faking it if I say "my college sweetheart was the best lover ever"



You know I'm faking it if I say "my life is really busy, I'll call you when I've got free time"



You know I'm faking it if I say "I'm not really into you "


You know I'm faking it if I say "have you ever thought about Viagra?"

You know I'm faking it if I say "lets go to sleep, I'm tired"

You know I"m faking it if I say "I want to see other people"

You know I'm faking it if I say "Your so handsome,  I bet the girls are crazy for you"

You know I'm faking it if I say "that was so great" 5 minutes into Intercourse

You know I'm faking it if I say "Wow,  you really did it for me"

You know I'm faking it if I say "baby,  you need some practice"

You know I'm faking it if I say "you have beautiful eyes"  trust me, if I'm having an orgasm, the last thing I'm   looking at is your eyes.

You know I'm faking it if I say "you appeared more experienced than this"

You know I'm faking it if I say "I want more"

I'm not faking for you, I want my O's

Often in a woman's world,  we are left settling for what we can get instead of what we want.  So when I get back into a relationship that becomes more than platonic,  I am going to express my needs and wants.  If I'm not getting them, I'll end the relationship as I do not want to go through another long relationship without being satisfied.  I propose we women take control of our orgasms and live life to the fullest. 



So to you men out there,  listen to us women,  we will give you what you want, just give us our needs.  We are not going to fake our satisfaction anymore.

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I had a great breakfast with my dear friend whom I adore and am so attracted to.  I often wonder why we don't date as we have such chemistry.  He is so protective of me and I am extremely nurturing to him.  Today during his scarfing down pancakes and my picking at my spinach omelet, he says something to me that hits a chord.   He says "I know you don't need a man and that your not ever going to marry again". Bingo,  we are not listening to each other.   I was so floored by his statement and totally left speechless. How did he get that from our 25 conversations a day?  Yes I feel that I don't want to ever be hurt again like I have been in the past.  I am so scared to let someone in, I am spooked.  I don't want to feel the rejection anymore.  I was so rejected by both marriages and I don't believe I can ever go through that again.  However,  I want so badly to have a man to spend the rest of my life with that will love me, honor me, take care of me emotionally and be intimate with me.   I want to love someone with my whole heart, honor him, love him, cook for him, dance with him, and take him to the doctor when he gets sick and older.  I want that more than anything other than my kids being safe and extremely happy.   I want a marriage if I can have an equal one.  I don't want to be the only participant.  I want to share my children and my future grandchildren with someone worthy.   I want to have those monogram sheets on my bed.  I just don't want the heartbreak that goes with it.  If my heart has to get broken or I have to go through another divorce,  I'm not interested.  I want someone for better or worse til death do us part.

Girl Talk: Toad or a Prince, which one are you?

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Girl Talk: Toad or a Prince, which one are you?

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Toad or a Prince, which one are you?

Question to ask myself, do I want to go out on a blind date Friday night?  I want to, however I am apprehensive.  What if he isn't 6'3,  he could be 5'1.  I am 5'8 and not really wanting to date someone shorter than me.  What if he smells bad, or drinks too much.  What if he doesn't have enough money to buy dinner.    What if he is a STALKER?  I have had a stalker before and not fun to deal with.  So I am deciding if I should take a leap of faith and trust my girlfriend with whom she is setting me up with.  What if he turns out to be prince charming?  What if he is everything I am looking for in a partner.  Could it be?  Why is dating so difficult to swallow.  What to Wear?  What to say?  Do I have a signal phone call to my girlfriend if I am having a terrible time?  I love having fun and going out but going on a blind date is less  appealing to me than getting the measles.  I wonder if I am the only girl who feels this way.  I envision a short, smelly man that is arrogant and not so smart showing up to meet me.  What we all want is a gorgeous, smart, successful, tall, dark and handsome prince coming to our rescue, the answer to our nightly prayers.  So do I go and risk meeting a toad, or do I decline and risk losing the chance of meeting my prince charming?   What I really want to do is send him and email with a check yes or no box,  with the questions being are you hot or not?  Are you smart or not so smart?  Are you short or tall,  and the final question,  are you being honest with your answers.   Wouldn't dating be so much easier if we had all the answers?

Girl Talk: Girl Talk: Good looking girl dining alone

Girl Talk: Girl Talk: Good looking girl dining alone: "Girl Talk: Good looking girl dining alone : 'I have no problem going to the movies or dining alone. Most of my girlfriends totally object to..."

Girl Talk: Good looking girl dining alone

Girl Talk: Good looking girl dining alone: "I have no problem going to the movies or dining alone. Most of my girlfriends totally object to going out by themselves. I wonder what peo..."

Good looking girl dining alone

I have no problem going to the movies or dining alone.  Most of my girlfriends totally object to going out by themselves.  I wonder what people do think when they see an attractive lady all by herself eating a meal, having a glass of wine or watching a movie. I feel secure enough with myself to say,  hey I don't have to be out with a man.  I can go enjoy myself without the company of others.  Let's face it, often the dates we do have are so boring or consuming that I'd rather be alone.   If I do go out and I know men will be around, if I don't want to be bothered, I'll wear my engagement ring from my ex.  The ring is my sign that I don't want to be talked to , I'm not available for any one's company tonight.  I like to sometimes unwind with a glass of wine and quietness.  Getting a date is extremely easy, getting a date you enjoy not so.  Maybe I have grown accustom to being single as in my marriage, I was the only participant.  I did not have that special one to kiss goodnight, to cuddle with, to be intimate with.  I had two dogs and 3 teenagers.  The love flows from all of them.  The husband was like a cold dead fish.  Maybe I have put up barriers because of the pain from HIM.  Are all men withdrawn, distracted, and aloof?  I didn't believe HIM was until after we were married.  It was like cutting off a light switch,  we said I do , he practiced I don't .  I am not willing to settle to have a marriage,  if I can't have it all, I don't want any part of it.   One thing I learned from HIM is  I am too big, I am too powerful, I am too loving.  To HIM,  your right, I am all these things,  you had me believe these characteristics were a bad thing, the past 2 years I have learned these qualities make for an incredible person.    So to all you women out there,  I say don't settle, believe in yourself, you can do anything you set you mind to.  

Girl Talk: Do you call him back or not?

Girl Talk: Do you call him back or not?: "So its almost the weekend, the guy your most interested in calls on Thursday but doesn't say anything about going out with you. This is my..."

Do you call him back or not?

So its almost  the weekend, the guy your most interested in calls on Thursday but doesn't say anything about going out with you.  This is my first clue that I am not going to entertain another call from this man as he is too into himself.  This same guy calls on Friday late afternoon to see If i'd like to go to dinner in a couple hours.  I did not take the call.  If i'm not important enough to make plans with ahead of time, your not important enough for me to sit across the table and converse with you about various topics.  I mean come on ladies, don't we deserve some attention.  I will call this guy back later on this week to let him know my life has just gotten busier and I don't see anyway we could possibly see each other until after the first of the year. I want someone to seem excited to plan spending time with me.  I am not a last minute date. I watched a movie with my daughter a few days ago and the point was so clear.  We women want to be romanced with someone that loves spending time with us.  We want attention to say the least.  I will give my all to a relationship if your giving your all to me.  So men if your following, listen to what we are saying,  to get what you want, be receptive to giving us what we need and all will  be great.

Girl Talk: Girl Talk: Who to date?

Girl Talk: Girl Talk: Who to date?: "Girl Talk: Who to date? : 'As you all know, I am over 40 and single. I am extemely excited to see what the future holds in store for me. I k..."

Girl Talk: I'm not that into you if,

Girl Talk: I'm not that into you if,: "We know the book called 'The Rules' and we have learned to live by them in our single world. However, guys don't seem to understand sometim..."

I'm not that into you if,

We know the book called "The Rules" and we have learned to live by them in our single world.  However, guys don't seem to understand sometimes when your not into them so I have compiled a list of "i'm not that into you if's"  so here goes.  People feel free to add to this list at anytime. 

I'm not that into you if I don't answer your calls even when you call over and over again.

I'm not that into you if I don't allow you to meet my kids

I'm not that into you if I don't ask you over to my home

I'm not that into you if I talk to other men in your presence

I'm not that into you if I tell you I am too tired to talk

I'm not that into you if I your being completely needy

I'm not that into you if I don't hold your hand

I'm not that into you if I talk over you what your saying

I'm not that into you if I make plans for the weekend and your not included

I'm not that into you if I tell you someone is on the other line, I've gotta go

I'm not that into you if I don't look into your eyes

I'm not that into you if I walk 2 feet ahead of you

I'm not that into you if I feel exhausted from our conversations

I'm not that into you if I you constantly talk about your needs

I'm not that into you if your not a football fan

I'm not that into you if come across as a prude

I'm not that into you if you eat like a pig

I'm not that into you if you dress like a slob

I'm not that into you if you always have plans for the weekend and I'm not included

I'm not that into you if you think you own me

I'm not that into you if your main concern is what your eating your next meal

I'm not that into you if your vehicle is a mess

I'm not that into you if I don't tell you I adore you
I'm not that into you if you like to play games
I'm not that into you if you talk down to me

Anyone have anything to add?

Girl Talk: Who to date?

Girl Talk: Who to date?: "As you all know, I am over 40 and single. I am extemely excited to see what the future holds in store for me. I know that I want to spend ..."

Who to date?

As you all know, I am over 40 and single.  I am extemely excited to see what the future holds in store for me.  I know that I want to spend more time on my career, charitys, and more time with taking care of my mom.  I don't give her enough attention and I know when the time comes for her to be too old, I'll regret not spending more time catering to her.  I am also looking forward to dating.  I haven't really put myself out there in the last 1o years.  I have had a few dates but nothing to write home about if you know what I mean.  I haven't met  HIM yet.  I actually don't even know if there will be someone I see dating long term.  I have committment issues from my last relationship.  I mean come on,  I was with the EX for 10 years and he turned out to be A sexual to put it midly.  I still haven't recovered from being told I wasn't small enough for all those years. So that is the topic of my blog today,  what do us girls really want when our children are off to school, we have our careers, and we are successful.  When it comes to finding that perfect dating partner what do you look for?  I do know what I am not looking for.  I do not want someone needing me to be their income.  I do not want someone that is too clingy.  I do not want someone that is socially inept.   I do not want someone that is insecure or arrogant.   I want someone that loves me the way I am, quirks and all.  I want someone that loves affection and romance.  I want someone that is my protector not destroyer.  I have had two of those and that's enough for me.   Ladies wouldn't it be nice to have someone make dinner for you and watch a chick flick without complaining?   I have no problems watching the movies the men like,  just occasionally give let us have what we want.  I love Sports Center better than most guys, however, I love a good comedy or girl movie to mix things up.   I guess what I want is someone to be my equal, someone to share life with, not take away from what is important to me.

Girl Talk: Cougar or Babysitter?

Girl Talk: Courgar or Babysitter?: "Do you ever wonder why our bodies do what they do? I mean come on, I'm 45, single and it seems my sex drive has escalated immensely. I fee..."

Cougar or Babysitter?

Do you ever wonder why our bodies do what they do?  I mean come on, I'm 45, single and it seems my sex drive has escalated immensely.  I feel like I have raging hormomes of a 18 year old boy.  I think about sex night and day, day and night.  Its the most bizarre way to describe daily life.  I hear men say all the time that their wives never want to have sex, and all I can say to that is your doing something wrong because trust me, women WANT sex and often.  Maybe you men need to try more foreplay or better kissing as we really want to have this intimacy in our lives.  Being single is especially hard because you don't want to be promiscious however, you want that stimulation from someone rather than your rabbit.  I often find myself sitting across from a date thinking lets get dinner over with so we can get down to what I really want, however, my southern upbringing prevents me from doing so.   These thoughts start way before the date happens. I actually find myself looking at a guys mannerism and imagine what sex with him would be like,  often this ends in me not giving out my phone number.  Guys, just know when us successful single girls in our 40's are out with you,  we are not thinking about what you drive, what your wearing, or how strong you are.  We are thinking,  "can he give me multiple orgasms"?   I also want so badly sometimes to behave like a man,  get my needs met and never answer his calls again.   I then think, oh that would be so ugly.  Guys can do it, why can't us girls?   If I just had the courage to actually go out with the hot 26 year old that calls me regularly,  I wonder if he could actually handle a girl in her 40's.   Could I become a cougar or would it be more like babysitting?

Girl Talk: Girl Talk: Girl Talk August 5th

Girl Talk: Girl Talk: Girl Talk August 5th: "Girl Talk: Girl Talk August 5th : 'Do you ever wonder why men can't pick up what your meaning when you say something? For instance, a good f..."

Girl Talk: Girl Talk August 5th

Girl Talk: Girl Talk August 5th: "Do you ever wonder why men can't pick up what your meaning when you say something? For instance, a good friend of mine text me that he feel..."

So Exhausting

I swear, everyday its something new with my friend.  We are getting alone so good and he decides I would be easier to deal with if I was in a relationship. What in the world does this mean?  Can anyone explain to me as I am totally missing the message here. 

Girl Talk August 5th

Do you ever wonder why men can't pick up what your meaning when you say something?  For instance, a good friend of mine text me that he feels like he has to beg me to call him.  I text back that I loved talking to him but had been extremely busy.  His reply was,  "why are you getting mushy on me".  I have no clue how he got mushy out of my statement.   Do any of you have this same problem communicating?