Good looking girl dining alone

I have no problem going to the movies or dining alone.  Most of my girlfriends totally object to going out by themselves.  I wonder what people do think when they see an attractive lady all by herself eating a meal, having a glass of wine or watching a movie. I feel secure enough with myself to say,  hey I don't have to be out with a man.  I can go enjoy myself without the company of others.  Let's face it, often the dates we do have are so boring or consuming that I'd rather be alone.   If I do go out and I know men will be around, if I don't want to be bothered, I'll wear my engagement ring from my ex.  The ring is my sign that I don't want to be talked to , I'm not available for any one's company tonight.  I like to sometimes unwind with a glass of wine and quietness.  Getting a date is extremely easy, getting a date you enjoy not so.  Maybe I have grown accustom to being single as in my marriage, I was the only participant.  I did not have that special one to kiss goodnight, to cuddle with, to be intimate with.  I had two dogs and 3 teenagers.  The love flows from all of them.  The husband was like a cold dead fish.  Maybe I have put up barriers because of the pain from HIM.  Are all men withdrawn, distracted, and aloof?  I didn't believe HIM was until after we were married.  It was like cutting off a light switch,  we said I do , he practiced I don't .  I am not willing to settle to have a marriage,  if I can't have it all, I don't want any part of it.   One thing I learned from HIM is  I am too big, I am too powerful, I am too loving.  To HIM,  your right, I am all these things,  you had me believe these characteristics were a bad thing, the past 2 years I have learned these qualities make for an incredible person.    So to all you women out there,  I say don't settle, believe in yourself, you can do anything you set you mind to.