Sunday, January 8, 2012

OVERWHELMING??? AM I THAT SEXUALLY AGRESSIVE??




A friend of mine said to me that I was overwhelming when it came to my sexual libido.  Of course knowing how I think, I immediately went into my mode of self doubt. I thought about how I am perceived as a woman. I am not your average girl that is all fluff and feminine.  I have a tendency to be a bit like a grown up tomboy. I do like a very aggressive sexual relationship that has all the perks to go along with it.  However, what I most want and enjoy is a relationship built around all aspects.  I want intimacy, trust, love, affection and a best friend. I want to find that person that loves me as much as I do him. I want to have total trust that he will not cheat. How great will life  be when I do find the guy that will fish, swim, cook, dance and play football in the backyard with me?  That's what we women really want.  We want a best friend that will protect us, love us and be there until the end.  We want someone that will sip mint juleps and tell our grandchildren funny stories on our front porch during their summer visits. Or shall I say, that's what most excites me.  Of course, when you meet that person, the sex becomes so much more. You begin to have this most incredible intimacy and affection that is indescribable.  I want to find the person who is connected to me in all ways.  I want my perfect guy that is full of flaws.  I am looking for my perfect partner.  Maybe I am overwhelming but I can live with that.  I like that I have excitement and energy to give to the right one.