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Her Talk
This can go either way for both men and women as we all date people occasionally, that make us run like crazy away from a relationship where signs of control and jealousy start peeking their little heads out. However sometimes one of our friends will latch onto a freak and your friendship takes not only a back seat but a fall off the cliff head first and your left without any resemblance of the friendship you once shared. I had a girlfriend who started dating a guy who would not allow her to have a girls night out. We could not even attend yoga class together. He would always accuse us of trolling for men even in sweaty clothing, no make up and hair looking less than perfect. She chose to stay with him, eventually married this control freak. No longer is my friend allowed to see me or any other girlfriends. She is timed when going to the grocery store. The only place she can go without him is to doctors visits, grocery shopping, or to drop the kids off to school. He checks the mileage on her car to verify she is being honest with him. She is not the same person I knew. I do talk to her on the phone from time to time and she always ends the conversation with her regrets of not listening to her best girlfriends. She is a prisoner in her own home. She has even been accused of having an affair with the mailman who is probably 75 years old. So men and women, when you start seeing any signs of control, anger and jealousy, please put your running shoes on and start heading south before your into a messy relationship that will only get worse and cause misery. Great friends are hard to come by. If you have to chose between people you've had in your life for a long time prior to meeting this person, always chose who has been there through thick and thin. If you don't, the jealousy and control will on ly get worse the longer you stay.
His Talk
I have never been the controlling type as I believe everyone should be able to see their friends and family. True friends are hard to come by so I'd like to think we could all keep our friends and have a successful relationship. I've had plenty of good relationships and I've not had to give up my friends to do so. With that being said, I am definitely surprised by your disappearance. If you can't see trouble on the horizon when your girlfriend hates you being with your friends, then you are not only blind but stupid as well. You are existing into a dictatorship and you are not the ruler, she is. You may be happy now but there is a storm a brewing. This relationship is going to lead you to a slow, miserable and agonizing death. A life without the freedom and liberty to do what you want within reason is a sure death penalty. Since your head is no doubt in her ass, I will let you go ahead with the colon cleansing, but when you come out, you will no doubt me miserable and sick. Do not forsake your friends for a relationship. The fact that you are giving up one for the other is suicide.
Her Talk
This can go either way for both men and women as we all date people occasionally, that make us run like crazy away from a relationship where signs of control and jealousy start peeking their little heads out. However sometimes one of our friends will latch onto a freak and your friendship takes not only a back seat but a fall off the cliff head first and your left without any resemblance of the friendship you once shared. I had a girlfriend who started dating a guy who would not allow her to have a girls night out. We could not even attend yoga class together. He would always accuse us of trolling for men even in sweaty clothing, no make up and hair looking less than perfect. She chose to stay with him, eventually married this control freak. No longer is my friend allowed to see me or any other girlfriends. She is timed when going to the grocery store. The only place she can go without him is to doctors visits, grocery shopping, or to drop the kids off to school. He checks the mileage on her car to verify she is being honest with him. She is not the same person I knew. I do talk to her on the phone from time to time and she always ends the conversation with her regrets of not listening to her best girlfriends. She is a prisoner in her own home. She has even been accused of having an affair with the mailman who is probably 75 years old. So men and women, when you start seeing any signs of control, anger and jealousy, please put your running shoes on and start heading south before your into a messy relationship that will only get worse and cause misery. Great friends are hard to come by. If you have to chose between people you've had in your life for a long time prior to meeting this person, always chose who has been there through thick and thin. If you don't, the jealousy and control will on ly get worse the longer you stay.
His Talk
I have never been the controlling type as I believe everyone should be able to see their friends and family. True friends are hard to come by so I'd like to think we could all keep our friends and have a successful relationship. I've had plenty of good relationships and I've not had to give up my friends to do so. With that being said, I am definitely surprised by your disappearance. If you can't see trouble on the horizon when your girlfriend hates you being with your friends, then you are not only blind but stupid as well. You are existing into a dictatorship and you are not the ruler, she is. You may be happy now but there is a storm a brewing. This relationship is going to lead you to a slow, miserable and agonizing death. A life without the freedom and liberty to do what you want within reason is a sure death penalty. Since your head is no doubt in her ass, I will let you go ahead with the colon cleansing, but when you come out, you will no doubt me miserable and sick. Do not forsake your friends for a relationship. The fact that you are giving up one for the other is suicide.
