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I think it is a deal breaker. Women need sex, we need it for our bodies, for our mind and we certainly need the orgasmic release. I personally want to be intimate with my partner. There is nothing better than a great intimate relationship. The only reason I could think of holding out and not giving my husband sex is because he was being an insensitive jerk. Even then, I really need my orgasms. If I were being emotionally or physically abused, I would not want to be having sex with my husband. I am at the age to let my spouse or dating partner know what I do like and what I don't like. I want to have the best sex and what better way to be frisky than to tell your partner what pleases you and what doesn't. If a woman is holding out, there is a reason for it. We women want and need Sex, Imtimacy and the cuddling after. Bring on the Orgasms baby!!!! The answer to your question, yes no sex is a deal breaker!!!!!!!! There is nothing better than hot sex in the elevator with your guy, standing up, hardly able to contain yourselves, pulling your skirt up, getting frisky, being intimate, being naughty. That's what we women want!!!!!!
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We all know the same stuff tends to get old or familiar, but we are talking about sex and marriage here. We change our wardrobe, our cars and we remodel our homes, but we often do not make changes in our sex lives. We fell in love and married each other, we committed to spend our lives together, so why do we not invest in our sex lives like we invest in everything else. This doesn't mean we have to completely change our style, but it may mean we have to operate slightly our of our comfort zone to spice things up or break the routine. We need to fix our medical issues, get couseling or take a pill. Elimate the stress out of our lives. Trust and believe if the house is on fire and you don't call the fire department, the house will burn down. Don't let your sex life whither and die or your marriage may die alone with it. Yes losing sex after marriage is a deal breaker.