Often times we women get extremely jealous of each other. Why do we do this? Shouldn't we all live by the rules of committed men are off limits, we look as good as we allow ourselves too, she is only more attractive than me only because I don't take the time to look the best I possibly can?
I can change my weight, hair color, clothes and teeth, so is it me that holds the key to attractiveness? To an extent the truth lies in our personality. Sexiness comes across in the way we carry ourselves. Some of the most attractive men and women that I have encountered were not Barbie or Ken, but average people. If we can gain that self confidence that allows us to know we are wonderful, sensitive, smart people, then the confidence we display will show our attractiveness. I am not the size I want to be, however I can change that. I do feel more secure, attractive and worthy than I did in my twenties.
I know what I want in a relationship, in the bedroom, and with my future. I am not willing to settle. So ladies, let us not be jealous of each other, own yourself, show your confidence and your strengths and the sexiness will be there. If we take care of ourselves and believe that we are strong powerful women who can accomplish anything we set our minds to, we will do it. That my friend is sexiness to other people. Let's celebrate our being able to live freely and grow to be the person we have within us.
Cheers!!